"I have to give up my pet, I'm having a baby." Recycled Rotts and shelters all
over the world experience this type of owner give-up everyday ~ sometimes several times a day. The truth of the matter is this, you do not HAVE to
give up anything.
Introducing your pet to a new baby can be done and with a little
patience and understanding, you can grow to be one happy family.
Granted, it's hard for a pet who's always been treated like a
baby to roll over and play dog or cat, when a real baby appears on the scene. But, that's exactly what he will have to do when his place in your heart must be shared with a new baby. Though a little initial moping is unavoidable, you'll need to do whatever possible to prevent excessive jealousy and, of course, any aggressive reactions. The following are several things you can do before baby's birth:
- Obedience training. If already trained, give your dog a refresher in commands, if not, invest in obedience classes. Friskiness may not be a problem in a childless home, but could be in one with a new baby. Obedience training won't take the spirit out of your pet, but it will make him more stable and less likely to harm your baby.
- Get your pet used to babies and their movements now. Invite friends with children to visit (if the parents are willing and under close supervision).
- Get your pet used to a baby being in the house. Practice 'baby activities', such as diapering and nursing, with a doll. If you and your pet are used to taking walks, take your pet for a walk with a stroller carrying a doll, thus allowing your pet to get used to walking next to a buggy.
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After delivery, the following are tips to introduce your pet to the new addition:
- Before you leave the hospital, have your husband or family member bring home an unwashed blanket or piece of clothing from the baby, so your pet can familiarize itself with the scent.
- When you arrive home, greet your pet without the baby. Once he has calmed down, allow your pet to satisfy their curiosity by sniffing the infant. The baby should be properly swaddled and held by you. Don't be alarmed if your dog attempts to lick the baby. The dog is simply cleaning the baby as he would a puppy, a natural instinct.
Be attentive to your new baby, of course, but don't act overprotective around your pet. This will only make the animal more jealous and insecure. Instead, try to get your pet involved with the new addition and let him know that he is still a loved member of the family. An
important rule of thumb, though, is to always remember ~ never, ever leave your baby alone with any dog, you just can not predict what will happen.
It is important that your child learn
respect for animals as early as possible
and understand that pets are not playthings or little people. Animals have feelings, they feel fear, they feel pain and they sometimes need to say, in their own way: STOP! The vast majority of human-dog and human-cat interactions are warm, loving, wonderful, safe ~ and shouldn't be missed! Take the time and make a concerted effort to give your pet the chance, before dumping it at a shelter.
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